Where the F*** have I been this whole time?

My dearest Occulties…

My goodness, I have a confession to make. I have dropped the fella of 2 years. 😦 Yeppers, it occurred soon after my birthday. I did toy with the fact that this has happened more than once in those 2 years, and that it might be a limited-time sort of dealie, except this time I found a NEW fella who I have been friends with for a awhile, and who is a very kind and generous man, and a wonderful lover…who knows nothing about the occult! Hurrah! Not that the ex-fella hasn’t been doing his damndest to chuck spells at me…that I keep breaking, even tho more than a month has passed since I said we were ka-put, and he continues to try. I need to ensure he doesn’t get a hold of the new Fella’s name, or else I am going to have to deal with the load of s— being chucked at my new guy by my old guy. 😛 Maybe I just got sick of having spells cast this way and that by both sides – but I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that the ex-Fella is a big fat LIAR, and I think that is a VILE habit. Screw it…I really don’t care if my beloved thinks he can cast love spells on me (since I can tell when someone does, and what-the-hey, it’s kinda fun,) but I do not appreciate being lied to AT ALL.

So anyways… I have been busy dealing with a lot of that drama, along with some various day to day stuff… And, of course, enjoying the benefits of a new relationship (namely lots of free dinners and lovemaking.) Anywho, here I am again… Everything is falling into a nice day-to-day rhythym…and I think maybe the ex-Fella is realizing it is time to give up so we can eventually be friends again. Yay! So I can post lots of spells and info for all of my lovely occultey friends! >:)

Oh, also, sorry for the fugly-ing up of my blog…that would be Typepad’s fault. I may be changing the style to get this clumsy, huge and unbalanced feel out…perhaps I may need to do it myself – we’ll see. Complain to Typepad or me if you hate the huge type and inability to tell the title from the blog, and I will make sure all of you negatory comments go to Typepad. 😛

Now, let us on to the occult, shall we?