Hey Occulties,
While this issue is never that far from my inbox – someone generally suggests to me that they should do this, or they do it and then ask me why things are awful, – I suppose I should say this publicly, if I've not before. NEVER WRITE ANYTHING IN TEXT OR EMAIL THAT YOU DO NOT WANT PLASTERED ON THE EVENING NEWS. Also, remember, if you're texting a love spell target or emailing them, they can read that over and over and over and over, and it's actually proven that psychologically, people read things in the darkest tone possible, so they are probably getting more and more irked every time they read whatever you wrote, especially if it is about how they hurt you. Make silence your weapon if you have a target who's not speaking to you.
And if you don't have that option? Your target works with you, shares children, a living space, or pets? Don't bring up the emotional past. Don't. It might feel like a relief to you in the short term, but you're setting yourself back by quite a bit if you want this person back in your life. If they associate you with being nagged, yelled at, made to feel badly about their past choices, upset, sad, angry – they don't want to return to someone they associate with those feelings. No one wants to associate with someone who's miserable, desperate, or complaining. So keep it businesslike and avoid bringing up the emotional upsets of the past until they start showing you the signals that they want to talk to you about this.
And if you don't care and just want to write them off? Well, then maybe send that text or email, and hit block. Of course, if you're so wound up that you have to send that text or email, you do still care. Silence often keeps more options open. Thinking it's cathartic to let someone know how much they hurt you or upset you may be true, but often it is just giving away what power you have to the person who hurt you.
Hope this made some sense….and don't hit that send button just yet. 😉
~Cat
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