If You Keep Picking at That, It Will Never Get Better

Hey Occulties,

While speaking to a client last night, an interesting point was brought up, which was that thanks to the Law of Attraction (which is as complex as physics, and has nothing to do lame-ass books like The Secret,) there are people who put off manifestation and cause stagnation in their own situation by just having to "keep checking" the work is on track with readings.

Now, look, what is my job? Do I give readings as part of my job? I sure do. And I don't want to go around scaring people that if you get a reading, that your whole situation will turn ass over elbow, or be floundering around and won't ever work. Because I unfortunately deal with too many people who view things with an exaggerated lens, I am sure I have just terrified a group of people out of getting readings for a little bit. 

Don't be scared of readings. They are not evil. They are not apt to kill your work or slow it down because you wanted the situation read once or twice before the spell manifested. IN FACT, in some cases where the petitioner is so nervous and requires reassurance to NOT OBSESS ABOUT THE SITUATION SO MUCH, they are actually more helpful than harmful. 

So let's go back to the Law of Attraction and energy…and if you smoke marijuana, you may need to take a bong hit, because this is going to make me sound a little out there…. So for starters, everything has an energy to it, and if we were to try to visualize this it would be similar to water or to a gas, as it moves and flows around all things. Now, when you do a spell, you are basically trying to move this energy in such a way as to bring a specific change into your life – whether that is to bring something to you (a job, a relationship, success,) or remove it from you (get a neighbor to leave, dispel negative energies,) which requires allowing the energy to flow freely. This is why I say "let go" of the situation, because just as spells are energy, so are thoughts. When you overthink the situation, you basically pull back this energy to examine it, lengthening the time it takes for this energy to move and make the desired change. Readings really pull back the energy, because it is a deep examination. Now, I've used this example before, but think of it a bit like digging up a growing seed to examine it as it sprouts, and then reburying it. Every time you do that, you shock the plant. If you do it too much, you could kill the plant, and all because you needed to be reassured it is growing on a thrice daily basis. 

So, if I haven't lost you yet (and I am sure I have a few people really confused right now,) basically if you don't think much of the situation you are working on, the spells manifest much faster. However, if you constantly ruminate on the situation and worry about it and doubt, the manifestation is much slower. Were I not held by discretion, I could actually produce a clear result for the general public where the worriers and doubters are getting slow results, and the people who let things go are happy and have what they want in a much shorter time. It's very visible to a practitioner for hire how much lust for results effects outcomes. I can see it in my own work for myself, but the real proof is working for others. If I am encouraging someone on almost a daily basis, and they are always negative, and always need me to check this or that thing, etc, I assure you, that situation is going to take a lot longer for the spells to manifest than in a situation with someone who just lets go and stops worrying. And if I'm reading the situation weekly, it is probably going to be a slower manifestation as well. I'm pulling the energy back to examine it and holding it to see where it is going, and now I've slowed the outcome. 

This isn't the way it is because I want to be a hard ass. It is no different than if I decide to drink and party and sleep for 3 hours, I'm going to have a rough day at work the next day and not because people are punishing me for enjoying vodka. 😉 It's because when you drink and party and don't get enough sleep, your body has a harder time working near to peak performance because you didn't treat it how it needed to be treated to give you peak performance. This is the same with spells. Treat the spell right, and it gives you a faster manifestation. Get nervous and overthink and obsess, and it slogs along slowly.

It's not a matter of disliking the personality type of people who overthink – I actually really like a lot of my worriers quite a bit. They are good, kind, sweet people. I wish I was the law of attraction, because I'd cut them some slack, but I'm not, and I can't change the law of attraction. 

I also believe that a reading in the manifestation phase is not really going to have a noticeable impact for many people, – if you get 2 readings in the span of a month, you're not apt to notice a difference in manifestation speed at all, – and if people are of the emotional make up that they overthink and overworry, readings can actually help stop them from engaging in those bad habits by offering reassurance, so they are even speeding up the outcome for these people (as it stops this obsessive worry from being near constant, which is hugely damaging,) but yeah…constantly checking the situation isn't, generally speaking, helpful. 

I speak a lot in here about NOT OBSESSING and not getting obsessive with the situation. I am not typing that point repeatedly because my fingers need exercise, or to suggest you should take my advice lightly. Stop checking their social media, stop picking apart the situation looking for answers, stop thinking about it as much as you can, – and watch a speedy and fast manifestation come into your life. Look, if you need to pick at the situation constantly to check if it's doing what you want, you're doing the same thing as picking off a scab over and over and over and over, and not letting it heal (manifest,) for worrying at it. 

And again, if readings are reassuring to you and they stop some of this obsessive worry, get them. It helps if you are calm and have faith in the work and don't worry about it, so if you need help not worrying, get it. Some of this is on you. You have to police yourself, and say "I need to stop stalking their social media, I need to stop thinking about this situation, and just know it is going to come together," but don't be afraid to ask your practitioner for help if someone is working for you, and don't be afraid to get a reading if you think it will help staunch the flow of obsessive worry, just know that, yep, because of the law of attraction, too many readings can sometimes slow the situation.

Hopefully that  made some sense. I am sure some of you are just more confused. You know where to find me if you are, ha ha. 😉

~Cat

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