Maintaining a Harmonious Relationship

Hello Occulties!

As I'd said the other day, there have been several clients and readers reporting struggles in their EXISTING relationships (so NOT former, and NOT desired/never together,) most-likely due to the retrogrades we recently experienced. This working could also benefit relationships that have had long-standing difficulties, however…

Please keep in mind that no spell is likely going to give a lasting fix for an existing problem that arises from severe mental illness or from a personality disorder UNLESS the person/s with said mental illness or personality disorder are working on overcoming this issues at the same time. If you're concerned that you or your partner have these issues (or you're aware that either of you do,) and you are not working with a doctor/therapist to overcome these issues, (and just being presumptive, but the afflicted party refuses to address said issues or seek medical help,) I recommend trying work to get them into treatment OR just keeping in mind that you will have to frequently re-apply this type of spellwork (which actually may help you get them into treatment.) Mental health is just as important as physical health, so if you or your partner are experiencing some severe issues, don't hesitate to speak to a doctor.

I personally think this spell is a very easy one to do, so it should work for even beginners! 🙂

On to some spellwork! 🙂

You will need:
1 pink "marriage" or "couple" candle (good for heterosexual relationships,) OR 2 pink figural candles* representing the genders of the couple (So 2 male figural candles, 2 female figural candles, or even a male and a female if you can't find a pink "marriage" candle or couple candle.)**
A medium to large-sized bowl (Preferably fully white, or a copper bowl,)
Chuparosa oil
Pink rose petals (fresh)
Olive leaves (fresh or dried)
Water (preferably from rain or a river)
Table sugar (just regular old granulated white sugar)

Set the candle/s to represent the couple. I have some instructions here, or contact me for more info about this. Anoint the candle/s with Chuparosa oil UP (base to wick) using 7 strokes of your right hand. If using 2 candles, you should tie these FACE TO FACE using a braided cord if possible. Sprinkle the candles with sugar. Using a separate candle, drip some hot wax into the bottom of your bowl and secure the candle/s to the bottom of the bowl with this wax. Now pour your water in to fill the bowl about 2-3 inches deep (if your candles are sort of small, you want 5/6ths of the candle at least above the surface), and put some rose petals and olive leaves into the water (they don't have to be dunked, just floating about is good.)

Place this on your altar. Take a few moments to bring to mind the couple represented (whether this is yourself and your partner or another couple,) and try to envision them peaceful, happy, harmonious, and serene together. If it is difficult for you to visualize, you can also place an image of the couple on the altar near you to aid you. When you have a very clear image of the couple in a loving harmonious embrace, light the candle/s, and say***:(Full name of person 1,) in love and in happiness I join you heart in heart, mind in mind, and hand in hand to (Full name of person 2,) and in so doing, I draw away anything that may push you apart. (Full name of Person 2,) in love and in happiness I join you heart in heart, mind in mind, and hand in hand to (full name of person 2,) and in so doing, I draw away anything that may push you apart. Olives keep peace between you always, roses nurture and grow the bonds of love and devotion between you, and may the waters always quickly cool any anger and argument between you. As is my will, so be it!" Allow the candles to burn out. When they have pour off the water and strain out any herbs, then sprinkle the water on your front doorstep (or by the front door of your residence, which may be the door to an apartment or rented room,) and upon your bed. 

This should make your relationship (or the relationship you had worked on) become more harmonious, peaceful and loving. 🙂

~Cat

*If at all possible, braid light blue, green, and pink ribbons and tie the figures together with this braided cord when using figural candles. 
** If you know of a distributor who makes marriage/couple candles in same-sex-couple models, please let me know so I can also inform my readers! 🙂
***In the hopes of being all-inclusive, in traditional couples, the male, then the female would be named in that order. For gay and non-gender-binary couples, I would say petitioner first, then the other.