Addressing the Lies

Hey Occulties, 

In the interest of transparency and because it is clearly reached the point of not just hysteria but straight up libel and defamation of character (I’m actually in talks with a law firm regarding dealing with that, because that anyone would say such things is vile,) I’m going to address the Reddit situation. 

For starters I’ve been arrested once in my life – for under age drinking in 1997. I wasn’t charged. I was almost 21. I’ve never been arrested for meth. In fact it’s bizarre anyone says I smoke meth. My ex husband lost his mind smoking it and I didn’t even know that he was doing it until he’d spent most of my money. I have no idea who thinks I smoke meth but after what I watched it do to my ex husband, I don’t appreciate the accusation, and furthermore I didn’t live in Portland in March 2016. I didn’t even live in Maine. I certainly wasn’t arrested in 2016, much less in March of that year, much less for a drug I’d never even seen in person for several more years after that.

Next, my husband may have battled addiction issues before but I’ve been very upfront with my clients about this when we work together, as many of you have had them as well and I can be very understanding, and I really don’t appreciate the exaggerated and monstrous lies I’m reading. He has never sexually abused a child aged like 4 or 2 or whatever the fuck is being said. Never. My husband was a TEENAGER himself when another TEENAGER lied about her age and they fooled around. So what was a few years previously a crime known as statutory rape  now carried other charges instead. I deal with having to tell people this from time to time. Why do you think the man HAS HAD SUBSTANCE ABUSE ISSUES? Sick people who think he is this monster and post such awful things that we are now suing for libel. I mean this was almost 25 years ago and he’s 40 now. It wasn’t with a 2-4 year old or anything so revolting. He would never harm a child. He would never do that. And you know what? I wouldn’t be with a man who would. 

the ridiculous and awful LIES I have read are so hurtful… and not just to me. What on earth does my husband have to do with ANYTHING? 

Furthermore my family is not at all very well to do and several of these bizarre statements that bring to mind a girl who threw herself at my husband and had some incredibly deep emotional problems who used to believe these things no matter what myself and my husband would tell her to assure her she was wrong. Because she said those things, no one else. 

Pomegranate is a girl angry because she paid me like $150 to get a man she went on one or two dates with 2 months previously to come back and I’m not sure they even kissed. She’s told multiple different stories since to several clients of mine and frankly, I told her it wasn’t likely to work at the time. She tried to blackmail me for free work and this is what she is doing as revenge. I might be misidentifying but the syntax and behavior would assure me I’m not.

if this is what you prefer as your resource for information, after over a year of abuse and lies, I am suing. This is libel. So much of what is said is absolutely false and unsubstantiated. You may contact me if you want to ask any questions and I will gladly address any and all concerns. I was absolutely sick when I read the lies – several with articles linked that do not even name me or have my name saying I’m charged with this or that. I’ve never been arrested save for the 1997 underage drinking I wasn’t charged with and my husband isn’t a child molester and we aren’t rich by any stretch of the imagination. 

20 years in business  and many happy clients and these two sick individuals would actively try to ruin me and smear me over a few dollars? Are you serious? Please contact me if you truly are concerned. My husband has never abused small children. How awful someone would say something so vile. 

~Cat

PS- in the last year I’ve had 2 complaints. One was from a kid who was repeatedly told to mind his manners and got fired when he couldn’t, the other from someone who told me they were dissatisfied with work I allegedly did and since they came to me using a clearly fake name with the complaint I asked them kindly to tell me who I was talking to so I could pull up their file and they said nothing else. Since each client contract does talk about a posting sharing clause, abd must be agreed to prior to hiring me, I know it’s likely not my clients posting such things, but if you are in breach of contract and actually have a real problem and aren’t bringing that to my attention appropriately so we can hopefully work to find a solution we both agree on, I do hope you know the validity of such reviews are very unlikely in such cases. I didn’t even know someone was unsatisfied in such cases and am always happy to work with people to make sure they are satisfied with their purchase.. unless they attempt blackmail or threaten me. 

PPS- unless you can verify without doxxing (against Reddit rules) who I am married to, and all the gross lies you posted which there were several false and unsubstantiated claims, knowing both our dates of birth and of course where we lived when supposed charges or accusations were made, and should any be a matter of judgement made against one in be a court of law, never posting anything of which one was acquitted as being true or that an actual arrest was made if that’s your sole claim, and that this is without question the truth, and that every single thing you say or said has full merit, and you can prove it beyond any shadow of a doubt, we have already gotten the whole thread, (threads) are getting the IP addresses from Reddit and unless you are sure none of it is rumor or conjecture – you have every right to say I’m a bad person, but any other allegation from I don’t really do the spells which I can actually prove otherwise, or that I am a meth head arrested for meth, or that my husband molested a 3 year old (and prove he’s my husband, and that he did that,) – you are responsible as is the mod for keeping that up and for what you said. We will be coming after you all. Expect paperwork. This isn’t a joke. I won’t say anything more because from now on, I have a legal case against you all and nothing else will be says before I win, and if you don’t get a gag order post everything about the case, including your fucking names and why you stalked me and lied on me and my family for over a year. 😊 I know the truth always comes to the light, so just a bit of personal advice but you should be sure you can win before you post those sorts of things. I gotta lot of thankful grateful happy clients too who will show up for me – over a hundred offered since we started looking this week. Be sure those “bad reviews” will all show up too. See you soon lovelies.