Spell for Revenge on the “Other Woman/Man”

Hey Occulties,

If you find out your spouse or partner is cheating on you, and you wish to remove the person they are cheating with as well as punish that person for their misdeeds, this spell is for you. If you ARE the other woman/man, this spell will not work for you. It doesn't matter if you didn't know your partner wasn't free to give themselves to you and you fell in love, however, if you were (or your target was) 100% honestly in the dark about your partner not being single when they started seeing you/the target and never discovered you/they are the third party, it may not work on you/the target. This is for knowingly-guilty parties. This also works on the cheating partner if they are your chosen victim, with a few alterations, so long as you are the person your partner is cheating on NOT CHEATING WITH.

It does require something not necessarily easy to obtain, but if the target has a certain personality disorder (as the type of person who knowingly sleeps with a married or not single person behind their partner's back often do,) it is not nearly impossible to get. Bizarrely, many of this type often likes to brag or show off about being a homewrecker to the very person who's home they are trying to (or have) wrecked, so they may even show up at your home to "inform you" all about how your beloved is theirs now – let them in and have coffee with them and try to get them to leave something behind (you cannot forcibly steal it). You need to get an article of clothing belonging to the target that is worn and unwashed. It's impressive what you can get people to leave behind when they try to gloat about having slept with your partner (seriously, there are people like this, lol, and it's disturbing how many clients tell me about this happening) and obviously if it's your partner that you are punishing, they likely live with you, making this all the easier for you to sneak off with an article of worn or unwashed clothing, plus if you make up with your partner, they can get this item for you by trying to tell the "third party" they want to make up, and sneaking off with a sock or some underwear or something small. 

Remember, punishing this person may be very well-deserved, but it only works when they KNOWINGLY tried to break up your relationship by being with your partner/cheating on you. 

You will need:
Dirt from a courthouse*
Dirt from a police station
Dirt from a prison or jail
Dirt from 3 different crossroads
Dirt from 3 different graves of people who died violently**
A piece of worn, unwashed clothing from the intended victim
A metal spoon 
3 nails (preferably bigger than picture nails) and a hammer
A can of any canned seafood
A potato
Red pepper flakes
A plastic bag
An item of your partner's unwashed clothing (if they are not the target)
A knife (If working on the third party, not working on your cheating partner)
A bowl
A needle and black thread
Scissors
Stagnant water (if you can't find this, get water out of your toilet)
Holy water
Elmers glue or white glue and paintbrush (optional)
27 pennies (or small unit change from your country)
A chopstick or pushing tool (optional)

Using your metal spoon, take one spoonful each from each place you must get dirt. When you go to the graveyard, enter in the manner described here in the previous spell and leave 9 pennies against the headstones of the graves you remove dirt from as payment. Place all of this dirt into a bowl and stir it together with your spoon. 

Fashion a doll from the item of clothing you have taken from your intended target and your black thread, folding the part which touched the target most to the INSIDE of the doll, and the part which touched them least to the OUTSIDE. For example you would want the INSIDE of the sock to be INSIDE the doll. Sometimes this item is a sweater or a scarf and it might confound a few people but fold it in half, stitch the doll, and do not cut the doll out yet, but leave an open hole at the top of the head, and then lightly paint the sweater or scarf on one side with Elmer's, covering the whole front and to an area slightly outside your stitching, allowing to dry, and repeat on the other side with Elmer's and allow to dry. DO NOT saturate the fabric, as you want the part that touched your target most to not be coated with this glue. This should prevent the doll from falling apart when you cut it out of the fabric. You may also paint the outside area outside of your stitches (and just outside of the stitches) if the item is a tighter knit and may "run" when cut to prevent these "runs." If you wish to fashion a face on your doll, I recommend using a permanent marker. Some people like placing a name on the item, and if you choose to label it, place your target's name across  the chest area of the doll. Make sure your doll can "spread it's legs."

I like to envision my target as I stitch the doll, often repeating their name over and over, and telling them this doll is them over and over.

Mix about 1/2 of the can of fish (even mini shrimp work, just old fashioned tuna, mackerel – the stinkier the better,) about half the potato which you must dice up small, and about 2 tablespoons of red pepper flakes into your dirt. For your ease you want about 1 part fish/potato/red pepper mix to 1 part of your dirt mix.

Stuff this mixture into your doll to fill it and stitch closed. Using your scissors, trim any hanging threads. Dispose of any leftovers or threads and remove the trash from your property immediately.

Place the doll on your altar, and baptize it with the stagnant water or toilet water, saying "I hereby baptize you (full name of target,) and that which is done to you is done to (name of target), – as is my will, so be it!" Place the doll into a plastic bag, and wrap this in your partner's worn clothing if they are not the target. Go to any secluded spot where there are trees and where people rarely if ever wander. The more secluded and untresspassed upon, the better. Make sure you are not seen and no one is around.

Open the clothing of your partner and expose the doll (leave it in it's plastic bag though – avoid getting that fish juice on your partner's clothing,) lying this on the ground before you and stand over it holding your knife in both hands and say "(Full name of target), here you lie, in adultery, in shame, exposed in front of all Gods and all spirits and living creatures, and every spirit of the dead – both damned and blessed – all beings see your every crime, especially your wanton and willful and treacherous pursuit of (name of partner or name of target, depending on who the doll represents), in defiance of all codes of righteousness. You, the most vile creature, the most wretched and disgusting being among men, proud in your debauchery, and hated and reviled by all of society for your crimes against it. Laughed at, mocked, rejected – the odor of your sins permeates you, and all know who and what you are and avoid you and mock you. I expose you to every being living or dead, and every soul and every spirit and every demon, and every god, (name of target,) and all see you for exactly what you are and every single being turns against you or turns it's back on you!"

Now, if you're going after the partner, you are going to say the same thing, but obviously not on top of your partner's clothing. You just take the doll out and lie it on the ground outside of it's bag, and you skip this next step.

Taking your knife, symbolically "cut" around and under the doll (as you lift it) and continue to "cut" as you say "(Name of target,) I remove any and all bonds you have to (partner's name) and sever all bonds between you both permanently. I call upon all gods, all spirits, all the living and all the dead to defeat you and destroy you and to dissolve and remove any bond you (target's name) have had or destroy any claim you have had, and to prevent any future bond between you (target's name) and (partner's name)!" and say this for a total of 9 times. Now toss the bag containing the doll away from you (not super far, you are going to fetch it, lol) and say "Depart from the lives of (your name) and (partner's name) and I bar you (name of target) and repel you from our lives forevermore! (Target's name), you abomination, your actions of turned away the protection of all gods, and spirits, and beings both living and dead, and even that of your guardian angel. You are are as desolate and abandoned and without holy or earthly aid forevermore! So be it!" Take your holy water, and sprinkle this over your partner's clothing and yourself (and be sure to sprinkle it liberally and rinse your hands,) and say "Bless our holy union, bless and strengthen the union of (your name) and (partner name), I forgive your transgressions against me, (partner's name), my only love, and call all gods, all spirits, and our guardian angels keep us close and keep away any who would ever try to separate us, as God has joined (your name) and (partner's) name and no man/woman shall tear us asunder. From today and all days forward, I call upon all beings who would protect us to keep us safe from (target's name) and any and all of the villainous and soulless creatures who act like (target's name,) seeking only to tear apart homes and families for their own selfish whims.

Taking your hammer and nails, turn your attention now to your doll. Remove the plastic bag, and taking a nail and your hammer, turn the doll so the head is facing down and nail the left leg to a tree as you say "(Full name of target), here you hang on display, in adultery, in shame, exposed in front of all Gods and all spirits and living creatures, and every spirit of the dead – both damned and blessed – all beings see your every crime, especially your wanton and willful and treacherous pursuit of (name of partner or name of target, depending on who the doll represents), in defiance of all codes of righteousness. You, the most vile creature, the most wretched and disgusting being among men, proud in your debauchery, and hated and reviled by all of society for your crimes against it. Laughed at, mocked, rejected – the odor of your sins permeates you, and all know who and what you are and avoid you and mock you. I expose you to every being living or dead, and every soul and every spirit and every demon, and every god, (name of target,) and all see you for exactly what you are and every single being turns against you or turns it's back on you!"  three times. Now nail the right leg to the tree, making sure the legs are spread and say "(Full name of target), here you hang on display, in adultery, in shame, exposed in front of all Gods and all spirits and living creatures, and every spirit of the dead – both damned and blessed – all beings see your every crime, especially your wanton and willful and treacherous pursuit of (name of partner or name of target, depending on who the doll represents), in defiance of all codes of righteousness. You, the most vile creature, the most wretched and disgusting being among men, proud in your debauchery, and hated and reviled by all of society for your crimes against it. Laughed at, mocked, rejected – the odor of your sins permeates you, and all know who and what you are and avoid you and mock you. I expose you to every being living or dead, and every soul and every spirit and every demon, and every god, (name of target,) and all see you for exactly what you are and every single being turns against you or turns it's back on you!"  three times. Now nail the heart area to the tree with the third nail and say"(Full name of target), here you hang on display, in adultery, in shame, exposed in front of all Gods and all spirits and living creatures, and every spirit of the dead – both damned and blessed – all beings see your every crime, especially your wanton and willful and treacherous pursuit of (name of partner or name of target, depending on who the doll represents), in defiance of all codes of righteousness. You, the most vile creature, the most wretched and disgusting being among men, proud in your debauchery, and hated and reviled by all of society for your crimes against it. Laughed at, mocked, rejected – the odor of your sins permeates you, and all know who and what you are and avoid you and mock you. I expose you to every being living or dead, and every soul and every spirit and every demon, and every god, (name of target,) and all see you for exactly what you are and every single being turns against you or turns it's back on you!"  three times. Now, bang the head of your hammer (gently so as not to burst the doll) against the head and crotch of the doll over and over as you say "All turn upon you, all of your roads are closed. You may only beg for money – for I remove any employment or source of income from you. You may only freeze and be exposed to the elements – for I remove all housing and protection from you. You are pursued by lawmen and sheriffs and lawyers for any crime you commit and I remove the protection of any law from you! Oh, adulterer/adulteress, here you rot on your tree, that all know you by your stink and run from you. Abandon all hope, and burn in hell forever! As is my will – so be it!" Wash your hands and hammer in the holy water. Leave the area, taking your partner's clothing (if applicable,) and other supplies, and leaving the doll nailed to the tree and do not return. The target will suffer a very long time, and will likely feel as though bugs are under the skin if and when maggots find that fish mixture. The stench of this rotting is so revolting, people will throw up if they smell it. What's best is it gives your target a "spiritual stench" that repels people as if they were smelling this terrible stink in person. 

I strongly recommend blessing your home and doing a cleansing spiritual bath when you return home after doing this work. I also recommend using reconciliation magic and protection magic on yourself and your partner if you wish to reconcile with them.

As you are calling upon more than one righteous spirit, to whom adultery is a mortal (unforgivable) sin, (as homewrecking is a pretty big deal to a lot of them) the target will find themselves with a very difficult task of removing this curse…unless you are the one who cheated on your partner or cheated with someone's partner knowingly, in which case DO NOT cast this spell as the curse will fall upon you and/or your lover. If you have EVER cheated on your partner, you should not use this. 

This isn't for people you SUSPECT might be sleeping with your partner. This is very nasty, and if you are unjust whatsoever in your aims, this curse can easily turn back on you. Be very careful calling on all of these spirits unless you are sure you are just in what you request. 

I'm sure there will be questions, so please ask!

~Cat

 

*This means anywhere (preferably in front of, but around the building itself or on the grounds is just fine) of the courthouse (or police station, or prison/jail) is where you take the dirt from

**Be sure to pay for the grave dirt. You must choose dirt from the graves of three people who died violently, such as by fire, car accident, murder, suicide, etc. Illness isn't going to work. The bloodier and worse the end, the better.