Hi Occulties!
Wishing everyone a very merry Super Bowl, if that’s even a thing.
Just a quick note today as I was asked (and would like to thank a reader for allowing me to share the question and my answer,) if it’s appropriate ever to curse an ex that you also want back.
You might be surprised to find out that this actually happens more than you might think. There are even spells designed to crush or harm an ex until they capitulate and return to the petitioner, so it’s its own category of workings.
As for “is it appropriate?” – well, clearly it isn’t a loving thing to do. In a social context, would it be okay for you to punish, lie about, and physically harm your ex until, broken and bleeding, they return? I think we can all agree, that would be a pretty awful way to act towards another person in the mundane, but when people find themselves out of options magically, they do use magic to tear down an ex until the ex returns. I’m not telling you it’s nice or kind, but people do it with enough frequency (and with success,) that certainly it isn’t something that is without precedent that they do it.
Hopefully that was educational.
~Cat
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