Quick Reminder

Hey Occulties,

As Neptune and Mercury are retrograde, it is no surprise that as this happens, not only do your targets act differently, well, so are my clients and readers affected and some bad behaviors are on the rise, so it falls upon me to post to you about this….

READINGS: For starters, I've never made any secret about believing psychic readings are an overused and overly invasive diagnostic tool. For those of you who have ever had a hard credit inquiry affect your credit score, think about this as a severe credit inquiry (that doesn't exist, but if it impacted your score 10x as much as a hard inquiry,) affecting your score…except your SPELL'S STRENGTH AND SPEED is that score. 😛 Does that not make sense? Let's say you have the very common condition of an evening of heartburn. Do you schedule a full colonoscopy and endoscopy the next morning? Because if you did, that testing is pretty invasive and hard on your body for something that probably requires a teaspoon of apple cider vinegar to cure. 😛 BUT this is what reading a situation is like… You are "dinging" the energy flow, pulling it, manipulating it to bring up those answers. It isn't apt to kill the spell but I think we can agree that doing this a lot and over every little thing is going to create a problem and could affect the speed of manifestation. 

And trust and know, there's very little overhead cost to providing you a reading. You are really paying me for the severe energy drain, and enduring the unpleasantness of the task (as it is often incredibly unpleasant to experience the emotions of people in the situations I am tasked to read,) and my expertise. If I were a less moral and more financially motivated person, I might over-recommend the practice to line my pockets. 

However, despite my saying as much, people want me to read every little thing, and if it starts to become overwhelming and takes over the very limited time I have for readings for EVERYONE daily, plus begins to show evidence of you developing lust for results, I'm going to say something to protect your spellwork. 

ALSO, it's abusive to ask free psychic reading questions. I get paid to do my job and I hope you do, too. If you frequently attempt this, I will point it out and ask you cease doing it immediately. 

So, since there are going to be a lot of people making themselves a little crazy or having some crazy targets for some time to come, I want to remind you to please keep your manners (so no hasty reminders or blowing me up to try to annoy me to reply faster, and please keep your inquires to EMAIL as I do not appreciate being texted at 2am any more than anyone else does, haha,) and please try to keep everyone in mind. If you had a reading 3 days ago, you probably don't need another one right now. Another client might need one far more, and with my first come first serve policy, you taking all my reading spots might start creating issues for other clients. I will gently remind you that psychic addiction is real, and may decline to read for you if I feel you are starting to suffer from it. 

If you frequently go over your paid time (example, paying for a half hour and keeping me on the phone for 90 minutes,) you will get banned from readings. I'm sorry but this is hugely abusive. 

If you demand same day service repeatedly, I cannot comply with this most of the time and I will point out to you that it isn't okay to persistently suggest I reorganize my day to provide a reading for you. Kindly understand that not scheduling and just asking me to do something when I'm free is something that means I might be five days before I get to it. I don't have free time. I wake up at 5am, and am often working til I go to sleep. 

CONTACT: Please contact me on my site email. The MISSCAT one is actually just a general junk inbox, and I check it maybe once a week or sometimes even longer between checks. If you are uncertain on what that site email is, use my contact form, but if you've been FIRED FOR BAD BEHAVIOR, don't contact me at all. Were you abusive, rude, and broke rules over and over, and didn't listen to me when I said over and over that you were breaching your contract, or when I asked repeatedly for you to correct a behavior? Did that end with me telling you I won't work for you and to get lost? Well, don't contact me again. Don't use the contact forms. Go away. I have so much business that the last thing I need is a poorly behaved person who was disrespectful of me and all my other clients with their execrable behavior and I assure you that if you were fired, that's exactly who you were because it takes a lot for me to tell you to kick rocks. 

Of course, I get one person every 18 months or so that I have to fire. Most people do not get to a point that requires that. 

For the 99% of people I work for who would never need such a lecture, PLEASE USE EMAIL TO CONTACT ME. DO NOT EXPECT RESPONSE FROM TEXTING ME. Outside of that, my beloved 99%, you are all wonderful folks and I'm glad to attend to any problem you might present me with.

SPELLS: A lot of people forget that I work with 40-75 active cases at any given time, and rare is it that I am down to 40 active cases. So, when you frequently blow me up with updates or needing reassurance or to just use me to vent, that becomes very time consuming, and frankly, I don't get compensated for that time after a certain point. I basically make my prices such that you might get a few hours of my time in the sense of how long it takes me to read and respond to your situation outside of my materials cost and the time spent casting your spell. If you notice the drop in cost on my site (you can get more than 2x the spellwork for the same cost as 2 single spells,) this is because the amount of support (time spent counseling and speaking to the client with active spellwork in the manifestation stage,) actually is about the same in a single spellcasting case as it is to a standard 7 day spellcasting. So, if you are always messaging me every single thought, worry, feeling, or momentary distress, you are literally taking the time of 10-20 other clients. This means I can't take on other business and you are taking up the time of other paid business which I took on before or simultaneously to taking on your case. 

MOST OF THE TIME this is new client jitters and it passes quickly enough that I won't say anything. However, if you are frequently taking up long periods of my time and with topics I've explained over and over or just to use me as a free dumping ground for every thought you have, I will talk with you once, and if it persists and you're lucky it will be twice….keep up after that with the bad behavior and you will be fired. I have provided a very extensive terms of service and client agreement and purchasing anything from my site means you agree to be bound to that agreement. Part of this is abusive contact behaviors, and I go over this at length. Feel free to review those pages or contact me if you are concerned you've crossed the line. 

Please keep in mind, we put in the order for the end result, not how it gets from point A to point B. So, if you need to interfere with the spellwork or demand to have a concrete map of HOW IT WILL MANIFEST rather than just keeping focus on getting the end result, you are your own worst enemy. If your ex comes back because they were at a show and heard a song important to you both and it made him/her really miss you so they texted you to open a convo to get back together, versus if they came back doing cartwheels all the way up to your door with roses for you in their mouth because they are just so crazy in love with you (and possibly also crazy, haha)…well, the point being they came back. I didn't get to dictate how or why that happened for the most part, – my spellwork was for the end result to manifest, not to tell the universe HOW to make that manifest. You pay me for the end result. It could be for a thousand reasons that they decided to come back, but you spying on them on socials or through mutual accounts, and you trying to suss out what they are doing and thinking? That's all lust for results. You can have it on any type of spell, but love spells are where the worst offenders generally always show up. So we are at point A when you contact me. We discuss the desired outcome. I put in an order for that OUTCOME. Getting fussy and stalkery and constantly demanding to know why some (generally trivial) negative event occurred before the manifestation does? I've been where you are. I've seen this many times in work for others and myself. If you lack faith and don't calm yourself the manifestation phase is hard. Real hard. Been there, done that. Seen lots of people do it. First STOP SPYING ON SOCIAL MEDIA. Stay off social media even. It's irrelevant to real life. No I don't say that because I'm old. I enjoy social media, too. It's fun. BUT it is not real life and no I don't care if your generation feels like it is. If you're young enough to say that, I know exactly what you mean as there were some pretty important things to my generation when I was your age, many of which were and are just as irrelevant in the long term, so I do entirely understand. Social media is worse in a way. It's honestly been nothing but a decay on society, and I'm old enough to assure you that it's been nothing but a fucking blight (it definitely hasn't had any positive influence,) which I say even as much as I enjoy it too, so if you can't control your stalking, you get off of socials for a bit. You won't die. I promise. Now, you also need to keep your mind off the situation as much as possible. Don't try to go over the situation in your mind. Don't worry on it. Don't over think on it. When it comes to mind, you tell yourself, "I'm doing everything I can to repair this, good changes are on the way, and I don't need to worry anymore." Then try to put it out of mind. Keep doing this and eventually it gets easier. 

Now, another thing we need to keep in mind is when we do love and/or reconciliation work on a target, we start resenting them if it takes awhile for making us put in so much effort! Well, from the target's perspective (and we must never tell them we used spellwork!) it doesn't seem like you're putting in effort. They don't know how much time or money you've invested. So, remember this before you get aggro at someone who's responding slower than you'd like.

Lastly, I do not control the economy! If there is a hiring freeze or you aren't qualified for a better paying job and can only get jobs which don't pay enough, please do not blame myself or the spells. I will usually check this with the person requesting job or money work, but every once in awhile I get some people who play down expectations and then quickly become demanding and rude when they don't get paid a salary most of us never will be able to earn which they aren't qualified to receive within the next week.

I ASSURE YOU, MOST PEOPLE DO NOT NEED THESE REMINDERS, IT IS THAT THOSE WHO DO NEED TO GET THESE REMINDERS FREQUENTLY. This is not one person who triggered this, but several and all of them doing the same handful of unhelpful things. Do not feel badly, as I would not single you out and blast you online…it took like three years to blast my stalker online and look how much she did before I did, lol. That should give you some idea how much bad behavior is required of someone. ;) 

~Cat